Jordan Jensen (Comedian) & Sara Kuburic (Existential Psychotherapist)
Nov 6, 2023
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Jordan Jensen, a comedian, and Sara Kuburic, an existential psychotherapist, join Rick Glassman for an entertaining podcast. They discuss topics such as boundaries, artificial intelligence, positive reinforcement for dogs, therapy accessibility, relationship issues, cultural differences, fear of commitment, modern monogamy, compromise, and the stigma of borderline personality disorder. They also explore the dynamics of giving and receiving in relationships, living life with balance, and the influence of music on connection.
Maintaining autonomy in a relationship promotes liberation and true commitment.
Taking responsibility in a relationship involves balancing pleasure, meeting needs, and setting boundaries.
Understanding and communicating one's needs while managing challenges and seeking support is crucial in relationships.
Deep dives
The Complexity of Commitment
In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the intricacies of commitment and monogamy in relationships. They touch on the fear of long-term commitment, the importance of setting boundaries, and the concept of modern monogamy. The conversation explores the need for self-awareness and the dangers of compromising too much in relationships. The hosts also discuss the challenges of navigating expectations and the importance of clear communication. Overall, the episode emphasizes the importance of prioritizing oneself while also fostering a healthy and fulfilling partnership.
The Importance of Autonomy and Freedom in Relationships
Maintaining a sense of autonomy and freedom in a relationship is crucial to its success. It is important to acknowledge that your partner has a choice to be with you every day. This can be intimidating, but it also fosters a sense of liberation and true commitment. Compromise is an essential aspect of a healthy relationship, as it shows effort, but it's crucial to maintain your own boundaries and safety.
Taking Ownership and Responsibility in Relationships
Taking responsibility in a relationship means meeting your own needs and the needs of your partner. It is about finding a balance between pleasure and responsibility. Understanding and communicating your needs and boundaries is essential. Additionally, recognizing and acknowledging the role you play in the relationship and not overextending yourself is crucial to avoid resentment.
The Challenges and Benefits of Diagnoses
Diagnoses such as autism can come with challenges and real-life consequences. It is essential to understand and respect your own needs while finding ways to manage and cope with them. Sharing your diagnosis and needs with others can offer context for your struggles and potentially lead to more understanding and support. However, it is important to find a balance between advocating for your needs and using the diagnosis as an excuse.
The Importance of Paying Attention to Your Body and Trauma
In the podcast episode, the speaker discusses the book 'The Body Keeps the Score' and emphasizes the importance of paying attention to our bodies, particularly when recovering from trauma. The book highlights the concept that our bodies store all our experiences and that ignoring our bodies during the healing process can be detrimental. The speaker recommends the book as a valuable resource for understanding the role of the body in trauma recovery.
Unwritten Rules and the Power of Trust in Comedy
Another topic discussed in the podcast episode is the idea of unwritten rules in society and the role they play in our interactions. The speaker suggests the idea of writing a book that explores these unwritten rules to provide insight and understanding. The conversation delves into the power and importance of trust in comedy, where the audience's trust in the comedian's control over their performance can significantly impact the reception of their jokes. The speaker also touches on the experience of following famous comedians and the dynamics of trust and discomfort in such situations.
The Sleepover Series is back, in New Jersey! Jordan Jensen makes her third TYSO appearance. The first time Jordan and Rick met, they got into a lot of psychology talk, so it was cool that there was a surprise guest behind one of the curtains... None other than return guest Sara Kuburic, aka Millennial Therapist. If you missed her first appearance (https://youtu.be/g1Pc2P1ZhBQ), Sara is an existential psychotherapist, consultant, writer, and columnist. She's also made famous by her instagram, millennial.therapist.
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