Explore the life of F. Scott Fitzgerald and his dedication towards family despite personal struggles. Emphasizing the importance of being engaged, optimistic, and setting a good example for our children.
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F. Scott Fitzgerald, despite his flaws, was a good father who deeply cared about his family and prioritized their happiness.
Fatherhood requires engaging with children, showing them joy and fun, and taking care of oneself to create a promising life for them.
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F. Scott Fitzgerald's Flaws and Good Fatherhood
F. Scott Fitzgerald lived a glamorous life but ultimately succumbed to his demons. Despite his flaws, he was a good father who deeply cared about his family. His death at a young age was a tragic loss, leaving behind a legacy as a father to strive for. Zelda, his wife, described him as always planning happiness for their daughter and herself, making life seem promising when he was around. This serves as a reminder for fathers to prioritize their children's happiness and create a positive and optimistic environment.
The Importance of Engaging, Showing Joy, and Taking Care
Being a father means more than just being strict or critical. Fathers should engage with their children, open their hearts, and show them joy and fun. It is crucial to provide experiences, find books for them, and plan happiness. However, it is equally important for fathers to take care of themselves and set a good example. Keeping vices in check and preserving their own wellbeing allows fathers to be present and make life promising for their children in the long run.
"F. Scott Fitzgerald lived a glamorous life and then he cracked up. All his talent. All his money. All the beauty and the passion evaporated. His wife, Zelda, wasn’t blameless in this collapse—both of them had partied hard, had prioritized things far less important than their beloved daughter Scottie. He was a man with demons, and those demons eventually won a terrible victory.
"And yet, even with his flaws, Fitzgerald was a good father." Ryan describes how and why, and what you can do to emulate Fitzgerald's example, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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