The Level Up English Podcast #322 How to Get Better at Small Talk
Apr 30, 2025
Small talk is a critical yet often daunting part of socializing. The discussion opens with personal awkwardness around initiating these conversations, followed by practical tips to ease into small talk. Techniques for remembering personal details to enhance interactions are shared, along with strategies for directing discussions and actively listening. The episode also highlights the emotional journey behind creating content and the challenges of navigating language learning, making it an insightful listen for anyone looking to improve their conversational skills.
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Awkward Silence Missed Connection
- Michael Lavers shares a personal story about awkward silence during a 20-minute wait with a colleague.
- This lack of small talk led to a missed chance for connection and conversation.
Use Small Talk to Set Vibe
- Understand that small talk breaks the ice and sets the vibe for friendly connection.
- Quickly transition from simple topics like weather to deeper, more engaging conversation.
Ask Better, Open Questions
- Ask open-ended, creative questions such as "What made you happy this week?" to invite deeper answers.
- Avoid boring, routine questions like "What is your job?" to keep conversations fresh.