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Impact of Childhood Abuse on Marriage
- Shay's husband was sexually and physically abused by his biological father, causing deep trauma impacting their sex life.
- They only have obligatory sex every few months, and Shay feels both lonely and unattractive despite his reassurances.
Trauma Warps Intimacy
- Trauma creates a hypervigilant, intense safety radar that affects sexual and emotional intimacy.
- The conflicting needs and fears cause disconnection, leading to isolation and loneliness in the relationship.
Own Your Story for Intimacy
- Carrying unresolved emotional trauma from one's own childhood can interfere more with intimacy than a partner's abuse history.
- Self-love and letting go of past burdens are essential for a healthy sexual relationship.