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Vikas Divyakirti on Evolution, Cheating, Love vs Arrange, Social Norms & Philosophy of Life | FO435 Raj Shamani

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Nov 20, 2025
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Vikas Divyakirti
Vikas Divyakirti, an educator and author renowned for his insights on evolution and relationships, dives deep into the interplay of social norms and psychology. He explores the ideal qualities of a man, contrasting love versus arranged marriages and the complexities of monogamy. Vikas also addresses the underlying reasons for infidelity, linking it to evolutionary roots and societal expectations. He passionately discusses the loneliness epidemic among men, emphasizing the importance of emotional expression and how evolving family dynamics shape personal success.
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ANECDOTE

First Class Moment Taught Privacy Matters

  • Vikas recounts unknowingly sitting with family in economy while others were in first class during a long flight and feeling discomfort from exposure.
  • The story illustrates how recognition and privacy affect self-respect even after success.
ADVICE

Avoid Situations You Can’t Refuse

  • Learn to say no and avoid social situations that compromise your boundaries.
  • Vikas warns people who can't refuse gifts or requests should steer clear of tempting scenarios.
INSIGHT

Evolution Shapes Emotional Roles

  • Human evolutionary history makes male expressiveness and family roles slow to change compared to rapid social shifts today.
  • Vikas argues evolutionary design explains parenting, testosterone-driven roles, and lingering contradictions with modern norms.
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