Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families
#150 Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn
Nov 2, 2020
Alfie Kohn, an advocate for unconditional parenting, discusses the harmful effects of conditional parenting on children. They explore the use of rewards, punishments, and praise as behavior control methods, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love. Dr Justin shares a heartwarming story about his daughter, highlighting the power of unconditional parenting. They also recommend books by Alfie Kohn for further reading.
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- Unconditional parenting involves loving children for who they are, without attaching strings to love based on their behavior or achievements.
- Unconditional love provides children with a sense of security, self-acceptance, and fosters their self-worth.
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Unconditional Parenting vs. Conditional Parenting
The podcast discusses the difference between unconditional parenting and conditional parenting. Unconditional parenting involves loving children for who they are, while conditional parenting involves attaching strings to love and showing affection only when certain conditions are met, such as good behavior or academic success. Research suggests that conditional parenting can hinder healthy development in children. It is important for parents to provide unconditional love and avoid using praise or punishment as a means of controlling their children's behavior.
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