Stoicism: Philosophy as a Way of Life Podcast

Did Marcus Aurelius say Kindness is More Manly Than Anger?

Jan 18, 2024

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The discussion delves into Marcus Aurelius's unique take on masculinity, highlighting the stark contrast between his Stoic ideals and modern self-improvement trends. It emphasizes the significance of kindness over anger as a true sign of strength. The influence of his family and Emperor Antoninus Pius is explored, alongside how Aurelius faced accusations of unmanliness from rivals. Ultimately, the conversation champions emotional control and leadership grounded in compassion as the essence of authentic manliness.

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Quick takeaways

Marcus Aurelius challenges modern perceptions of masculinity by promoting kindness and compassion as essential virtues for true strength.

The Stoic philosophy advocates for inner freedom and emotional control, emphasizing that true manliness is grounded in virtue over impulsive reactions.

Deep dives

The Misinterpretation of Stoicism and Masculinity

Stoicism as a philosophical system often gets misrepresented, particularly in the context of masculinity. Many associate the modern concept of being 'manly' with toughness and emotional suppression, a distortion of Stoicism that overlooks its core teachings. Marcus Aurelius, a prominent Stoic philosopher, advocated for kindness and compassion as foundational aspects of true strength and manhood, directly opposing the harsh perceptions of masculinity. This nuanced understanding of Stoicism redefines what it means to be a man in today's society, especially for the younger generation seeking role models who embody these principles.

Intro

2min

The Stoic Perspective on Masculinity and Leadership

5min

The Stoic Perspective on Manliness and Control Over Emotions

5min

In this episode, I briefly discuss what Marcus Aurelius said about masculinity, and how it might differ from what some modern self-improvement influencers say, despite their claims to be influenced by Stoicism.

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Highlights

* The resurgence of Stoicism and the manosphere

* Stoic philosophy versus being “stoic”

* Marcus Aurelius’ enemies accused him of being unmanly

* Marcus’ mother and father’s influence

* The influence of Emperor Antoninus Pius

* What Marcus says about manliness and anger

* Marcus sums up manliness in one of his favourite slogans: “Upright, not set upright.”

Links

* Marcus Aurelius: The Stoic Emperor

* Verissimus: The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius

* How to Think Like a Roman Emperor