After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

We Almost Got Divorced: What's Saved Deena's Marriage After Kids

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Jun 11, 2025
Dive into the candid discussion between Deena and her husband as they reveal the raw realities of marriage after kids. They confront silent resentments, the emotional toll of parenting, and the transformative power of therapy. Learn how they navigated communication and rebuilt trust, even during rock-bottom moments. This heartfelt exchange offers relatable insights on shared responsibilities, the struggles of modern parenthood, and the importance of self-care. It's a beacon of hope for anyone feeling lost in the complexities of love and parenting.
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INSIGHT

Need for Pre-Parenting Conversations

  • The traditional parenting roles are shifting, requiring detailed conversations pre-parenthood.
  • Aligning expectations is essential to prevent relationship failures in modern parenting.
INSIGHT

Invisible Load's Relationship Toll

  • There is a complex invisible load that mainly burdens mothers postpartum.
  • Stepping into this 'pile of shit' without awareness can seriously harm relationships.
ANECDOTE

Deena's Breaking Point Anecdote

  • Deena reached a breaking point on a trip to LA where Mike made plans without considering her needs.
  • She realized she could be a single mom as she was essentially single parenting within the marriage.
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