Small Doses with Amanda Seales Side Effects of Loving Corrections (with adrienne maree brown)
Jun 11, 2025
adrienne maree brown, a renowned writer and activist, discusses the art of 'loving corrections' in relationships. She emphasizes the balance between gentle guidance and tough love while exploring self-reflection. The impact of music on personal identity is revealed through anecdotes. The conversation delves into self-perception, voice dynamics, and societal expectations, especially regarding race and gender. brown also highlights the importance of empathy in relationships, encouraging deeper connections in a superficial digital age.
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Love Essential for Effective Correction
- Loving corrections require the presence of mutual love and respect to be effective.
- Corrections without love often feel like attacks or snide remarks, which hinder constructive change.
Power Dynamics Affect Perceived Volume
- People often perceive calm communication as yelling due to power dynamics and social conditioning.
- Loudness sometimes reflects a challenge to unequal power rather than actual aggression.
Use Curiosity Over Criticism
- When you notice annoying habits in loved ones, try understanding their context instead of reacting.
- Curiosity about others' behavior fosters more loving and peaceful relationships.
