#62 Power Play: Exploring Submission and Domination (with Julieta Chiara)
Jul 8, 2021
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Sex blogger Julieta Chiara discusses career pathways in the sexuality industry, introducing kink and BDSM, exploring male submission and dominance, and creating safe spaces for sexual exploration. The podcast explores societal norms, communication in BDSM, and blending Tantra with BDSM practices.
Embrace diverse aspects of sexuality careers in the industry
Overcome societal constructs for self-acceptance in BDSM
Establish trust and safety when exploring power dynamics
Deep dives
Exploring Pathways in the Sexuality Industry
The podcast delves into various pathways within the sexuality industry, discussing ways for individuals to enter this field. Topics covered include Tantra, the BDSM community, and the intersection of spirituality with sex toy industry insights. Juliaa and the host explore how men can embrace their submissive and dominant sides, aiding listeners in understanding different entry points into the industry.
Challenges and Queries in Embracing Kink and BDSM
Juliaa shares her journey from being a sex blogger to delving into BDSM and kink education, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in defining one's professional path. The episode addresses societal perceptions around masculinity and femininity in BDSM, highlighting the struggles individuals face regarding self-acceptance and exploration of unconventional desires. The conversation navigates the complexities of gender norms and pressures linked to sexual preferences, encouraging open dialogue about embracing diverse aspects of sexuality.
Navigating Gender Roles and Sexual Exploration
The discussion extends to the challenges and stigmas related to gender roles and sexual exploration, focusing on how societal constructs impact individuals' comfort with their desires. Both hosts share experiences of assisting clients in embracing different power dynamics in sexual relationships, emphasizing consent and personal boundaries. From exploring submission and dominance to debunking stereotypes around sexual preferences, the episode emphasizes the importance of self-exploration, communication, and boundary-setting in navigating diverse aspects of human sexuality.
Understanding Partner Dynamics in BDSM and Kink
Individuals in the BDSM and kink community often navigate partner dynamics based on their perceived level of kinkiness. Some reserve certain aspects for specific partners they think will be receptive, while others gauge this dynamic through a deep understanding of body language and energy. The importance of reading individuals and rooms plays a significant role, allowing for unique and unexpected experiences, such as a one-night stand turning into an intense and kinky encounter due to shared connections and mutual acceptance.
Creating Safety and Trust in BDSM Exploration
Building a foundation of trust and safety is crucial in exploring BDSM and kink activities, emphasizing the necessity for mutual respect and emotional security. Establishing a strong friendship base aids in solidifying trust before delving into deeper physical intimacy. Incorporating intimacy exercises like massage parties encourages open communication and consent, paving the way for exploring power dynamics and submission without compromising safety or comfort.
On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I have the pleasure of chatting with Julieta Chiara. Julieta is sex blogger, entrepreneur, and sex toy fanatic. A digital sex nomad, she travels the world full time with her luggage full of sex toys, connecting with folks through her adventures and advocacy for female pleasure, exploring kink, sexual health, and reclaiming your power in pleasure, life, and business. She started her blog in 2017 as a compliment to her studies in human sexuality, and never looked back at a normal life. Working closely with adult brands and having multiple appearances as a writer, podcast guest, and interviewee, her passion has been connecting with her community. Julieta’s work extends far beyond her blog, which is her passion project. She is the CEO & founder of Chiara Collective, her digital media agency for adult brands. Helping position folks in the adult space for success, Julieta says it’s been an honor bringing sex toys to the mainstream. We talk about the sexuality industry and the available career paths. We also discuss what the Tantra community could learn from the BDSM community. We also share ways in which men can explore their sexually submissive and dominant sides.
