Focus on Marriage Podcast

When Sex Isn’t Frequent

Jul 31, 2025
Discover how couples can navigate seasons of low sexual intimacy with insights on communication and emotional connection. Hear personal stories that highlight the struggles some women face, including the feeling of isolation in marriages. Learn about the impact of external stressors on libido and strategies to foster open dialogues around sexual desire. The importance of seeking support, especially through counseling, is emphasized, along with a hint at how birth order may affect relationship dynamics.
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INSIGHT

Sexual Silence in Marriage

  • Many couples avoid discussing sex due to awkwardness and lack of prior communication models.
  • Up to 50% of couples in counseling report dissatisfaction with sexual frequency, highlighting the need to address this issue openly.
ANECDOTE

Hannah's Sexless Marriage Story

  • Hannah suffered over 10 years in a sexless marriage, feeling unloved and unable to share her experience.
  • Her friends' contrasting stories deepened her isolation and shame about her own marital difficulties.
ANECDOTE

Erin and Greg's Low Desire Season

  • Erin and Greg experienced low sexual desire during stressful times, notably during Greg's doctorate studies.
  • Open communication helped Erin understand his stress was the cause, not a reflection on her or their relationship.
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