307: Help! I'm Too Physically Attractive! | Feedback Friday
Jan 31, 2020
What happens when being too attractive makes it hard to find meaningful connections? The hosts dive into the complexities of beauty and the unexpected attention it brings. They also tackle the controversial topic of tipping—should it be mandatory or based on exceptional service? Listeners receive guidance on transitioning jobs while maintaining good relationships, handling manipulative family dynamics, and the importance of financial discussions before marriage. Finally, they stress the power of networking and community engagement.
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Tipping Advice
Consider tipping even if service isn't great, unless the server is rude or unresponsive.
Add 20% to restaurant costs to account for this American custom.
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Transitioning Jobs
Inform your employer early and in writing about your desired transition, offering a smooth handover.
Work harder from home initially to demonstrate continued commitment.
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Handling Difficult Parent
Lower expectations and accept your mother's behavior without trying to change her.
Prioritize self-care and your immediate family's needs over excessive demands.
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Being unattractive to potential partners is obviously not ideal, but what happens when you're too physically attractive to land meaningful attention from someone who might complete you? We'll tackle this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!
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Should a tip be optional unless service is above and beyond what's expected from your server -- instead of obligatory because the restaurant or business won't pay their staff enough?
You've been at your job for a long time and you want to do something different. How do you let your employer know that you want to transition out of your current role while still keeping a positive relationship?
You're the only child, and you've got an overly sensitive and selfish parent you need to take care of. What can you do to make sure they don't stress you out when you're expected to drop everything to attend to their needs?
You're in a long-term relationship that seems to be on track for marriage. What do we suggest you talk about to make sure you're both on the same page before you make the biggest commitment of your life?
You want to settle down in one place after moving to six different states and countries over the past 12 years, but your spouse can't seem to decide where to settle. What can you do to come to an agreeable compromise?
You're a successful, moderately attractive person who seems to get attention from all the wrong people. Potential friends either want to date you or worry their partners want to date you. On top of all this, you're demisexual. How can you find someone compatible?
Life Pro Tip: Instead of spending a day shopping, spend a day cleaning out your closet. You will find clothes you didn't realize you had and re-discover old favorites you thought you had lost. Plus, it's free!
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