The Dr. John Delony Show I’ve Had a Crush on my Husband's Friend for 5 Years
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Sep 15, 2025 A listener grapples with a five-year crush on her husband's friend, prompting a deep dive into the emotional implications for her marriage. The discussion touches on the complexities of unfulfilled desires and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. A light-hearted gift-giving dilemma arises, highlighting familial communication challenges. Finally, the emotional aftermath of job loss and coping with anxiety are addressed, alongside practical advice for navigating leadership dynamics in the workplace.
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Attraction As Escape
- Feeling attracted to someone's adventurous life can be normal and uplifting.
- The crush often reflects longing for qualities missing in your own life, not moral failure.
Fantasy Reveals Deeper Discontent
- World-building fantasies signal dissatisfaction with your current relationship.
- Those fantasies can become a secret escape that prevents addressing deeper problems at home.
Name What You Need
- Do acknowledge when someone makes you feel seen and valued; name what you need at home.
- Try to bring that need into your marriage instead of outsourcing it mentally to another person.
