On Curiosity, Presence, and Love | Dr. Jacob Ham

'What is this moment calling for?'

At the heart of Dr. Jacob Ham’s approach lies this profound question. 

The simplicity of it can be disarming. 

Yet to answer it skillfully requires the capacity to be present -

To notice what is arising moment by moment. 

Not only in you, 

But in those around you, 

As well as what is arising in the space between.

That sacred ground we like to call connection or relationship.

To answer the question also necessitates an ability to meet whatever is here with curiosity, and the wisdom of an open heart. 

Over the course of his career Dr. Ham has sat with countless clients, 

Exploring the landscape of trauma, healing, and growth. 

Honing his craft through the act of asking and answering this question. 

Moment by moment.

In many ways Dr. Ham might be thought of as a master craftsman, 

A brilliant therapist,

Who has cultivated a deeply loving, authentic, and wise presence over a lifetime of practice.

It’s a way of showing up,

A way of being,

A way of meeting people exactly where they are,

which can’t really be described in words. 

Like a good conversation, it’s something that must be experienced. 

Today, you’ll have that opportunity. 

We originally recorded over a year ago, but chose to re release it, as it is one of the most moving and unique conversations I ’ve ever had on the show. 

For more on Dr. Ham, his work both as a therapist, and as Director of the Center for Child Trauma and Resilience at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai, as well as his writings and events please visit drjacobham.com

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