The Dr. John Delony Show

Our Marriage Is in Trouble After Only 5 Months . . .

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Nov 22, 2024
A newlywed husband seeks deeper emotional connection with his wife amid their contrasting backgrounds. The conversation dives into the importance of vulnerability and reassurance in relationships. Listeners hear about dealing with resentment towards friends and the challenge of introducing children to a new partner after loss. They also explore coping with grief during significant family events, highlighting communication and emotional safety as vital to navigating these complex dynamics.
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ADVICE

Emotional Connection Advice for Newlyweds

  • Newlywed Paul struggles to connect emotionally with his wife.
  • John advises him to increase physical touch and verbal affirmation.
INSIGHT

Emotional Regulation as a Safety Mechanism

  • John suggests that Paul's wife's emotional expressiveness might stem from a need to ensure safety.
  • Her upbringing might have taught her to read the room to regulate her emotions.
ADVICE

Practical Tips for Showing Love

  • John suggests asking "How can I love you right now?" to understand needs directly.
  • Practice skin-on-skin contact and verbal affirmations to show love and build safety.
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