More Happier with Gretchen Rubin and Samantha Bee

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Jun 24, 2025

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Samantha Bee

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Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin, a best-selling author and host of the Happier podcast, joins comedian Samantha Bee, known for her sharp wit on Full Frontal. They dive into the emotional intricacies of parenting, sharing personal stories about the rollercoaster of potty training and the evolving role of parents. The discussion highlights the challenges of self-regulation during kids' outbursts and the emotional impacts of college expectations. Ultimately, they emphasize the beauty of embracing imperfection and the importance of vulnerability in forging meaningful family connections.

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ANECDOTE

Parenting Philosophy from Early Advice

Samantha Bee shares how early advice shaped her parenting philosophy: children should adapt to parents, not the reverse.
This approach allowed her family to maintain their lifestyle and joy together.

ADVICE

Don't Prioritize Kids' Immediate Happiness

Becky Kennedy advises it is not our job to make our kids happy but to help them manage frustration and build resilience.
Prioritizing ease and immediate success creates entitlement and anxiety.

ADVICE

Manage Yourself to Parent Well

Managing yourself first as a parent is crucial to maintaining patience and emotional regulation.
Getting enough sleep and creating margin helps parents handle children's tantrums better.

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In this special episode, we’re sharing a recent conversation from More Happier with Gretchen Rubin, where Dr. Becky joined Gretchen Rubin and comedian Samantha Bee for a heartfelt Parenting Roundtable.

Together, they explore the most helpful lessons they’ve learned as parents, the toughest challenges they’ve faced, and the anxieties that come up along the way. It’s an honest, funny, and deeply relatable conversation about what it really means to grow with your kids—not just raise them.

Originally aired on More Happier with Gretchen Rubin, and shared here with permission.

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