The Psychology of your 20s 151. Stop getting attached too quickly ft. Lyss Boss
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Dec 11, 2023 In this engaging conversation, Lyss Boss, the host of the Date Yourself Instead podcast, shares her insights on emotional attachment in romantic relationships. She explores the pitfalls of fantasy bonding and how it often leads to disappointment. Listeners learn the importance of taking things slow and fostering self-love before diving into new connections. Lyss emphasizes the need for self-awareness and setting boundaries to nurture healthier relationships, turning the focus from attachment to personal growth.
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Attachment to Potential
- Lyss Boss got attached to the potential of a person who kept promising change.
- She overlooked problems and fantasized about a future that wasn't real.
Learning from Past Relationships
- Past relationships, even painful ones, offer valuable lessons.
- These lessons prepare you for recognizing and appreciating true connection.
Trust Your Gut
- Early anxiety or discomfort in dating is a red flag.
- Trust your gut feeling and prioritize peace and calm in a relationship.