The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle “Cool-Girli-sm,” Magical Thinking and Limerence Keep You ALONE
Nov 27, 2024
Are you pouring your heart into someone who’s not interested? It's time to wake up and reevaluate your romantic energy! Explore attachment styles and the challenges of emotional availability in relationships. Discover how to navigate the chaos of unreciprocated feelings while focusing on personal growth. Learn what makes someone partner material and the importance of setting boundaries for healthier connections. Embrace the journey toward true love and emotional fulfillment!
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Stop Crap Fitting
- Stop "crap fitting" yourself into unacceptable situations or with people who don't reciprocate your feelings.
- Recognize that this behavior is often learned in childhood but hinders finding real love as an adult.
Recognize Insecure Attachment
- "Secure attachment" isn't real if you're deeply invested in someone who isn't available.
- Unrequited love and over-giving are signs of insecure attachment, not healing.
Face Reality
- Accept the painful reality that someone may not love you back.
- Living in a fantasy of what could be prevents you from finding real love.