

A Pastor Talks Deconstruction: Honoring the Journey of Rev. Joseph Yoo
Today we welcome Reverend Joseph Yoo for an open conversation about faith, deconstruction, and creating inclusive spiritual communities. Joseph shares his personal journey as a pastor’s kid in a multi-generational ministry family, his experiences with conservative and evangelical traditions, and his evolution toward a more inclusive, affirming approach to faith. Together, we discuss the challenges and rewards of questioning long-held beliefs, the loneliness and courage involved in deconstructing faith, and the importance of building spaces where everyone—especially those on the margins—can belong and be loved.
Bullet Points of Interest:
- Joseph’s upbringing in a family deeply rooted in ministry across generations.
- The impact of purity culture, fundamentalism, and immigrant experiences on his faith journey.
- Joseph’s transition from conservative theology to a more inclusive, affirming ministry.
- Honest reflections on deconstruction, including the pain, loneliness, and social consequences.
- The importance of creating safe spaces for those questioning or leaving traditional faith communities.
- Insights on tokenism versus true diversity in church leadership and congregations.
- Leslie’s personal story of leaving the church to pursue love and authenticity, including her experience on "Survivor."
- The role of neuroplasticity in changing beliefs and the difficulty of reprogramming long-held ideas.
- Encouragement for those deconstructing to seek community and not go through the process alone.
- A focus on love, acceptance, and supporting people wherever they are on their spiritual journey.
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Honoring the Journey is hosted, produced and edited by Leslie Nease and the artwork for the show is also created by Leslie Nease.
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