Modern Wisdom #692 - Connor Beaton - Why Are Young Men Struggling So Much?
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Oct 12, 2023 
Connor Beaton, a men’s life coach and founder of ManTalks, dives into the struggles modern young men face. He challenges the notion that vulnerability is a straightforward remedy for mental health issues. The conversation explores the misconceptions surrounding male emotions, the impact of fatherlessness, and the importance of deep friendships. Connor advocates for open dialogue, mentorship, and understanding the nuanced pressures of masculinity, emphasizing that addressing these issues is crucial for personal growth and emotional well-being.
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The One Rule of Men
- Men struggle to discuss their hardships, similar to the "Fight Club" rule of secrecy.
- This suppression leads to a reliance on unhealthy coping mechanisms and a delay in seeking help.
Hidden Struggles
- Connor Beaton shares a story about opening up to a friend after his own struggles.
- His friend then revealed a recent suicide attempt, highlighting the hidden struggles of men.
The Currency of Men
- Even in supportive teams, men often unconsciously compete, using status as their currency. This subtle competition hinders vulnerability and open communication.
