The Daily Dad

Can You Change Your Personality—As a Parent? | Olga Khazan & Ryan Holiday

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Jul 19, 2025
Dive into the unexpected growth that comes with parenting, as personal doubts meet the demands of nurturing a child. Discover the delicate balance between authority and empathy that first-time parents navigate. Explore the importance of setting boundaries and financial preparedness in the chaotic world of parenthood. Embrace the individuality of your children, letting them explore unconventional interests. Ultimately, experience how this transformative journey reshapes your own personality in surprising ways.
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INSIGHT

Confidence in Learning Parenthood

  • Olga Khazan realized she can learn hard new things like parenting despite never doing them before.
  • She trusts her ability to adapt, not an inherent "mom ingredient" she lacks.
ADVICE

Define Agreeable Parenting

  • Be an agreeable parent by showing empathy and taking your child's perspective.
  • Avoid authoritarian styles; prefer cooperation over harsh punishments or yelling.
ANECDOTE

Baby's Unique Toy Preference

  • Olga’s baby loves playing with the trash can rather than typical toys.
  • She bought a clean toy garbage can to embrace his interests instead of fighting them.
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