134: Randy Gravitt — Winning at Home Without Losing at Work, Leading With Presence, and Why Hope Is Not a Strategy

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In this episode, Cal Walters sits down with executive coach, speaker, and author Randy Gravitt of ⁨@Lead_Every_Day⁩ to explore one of the most important leadership questions of our time:

How do you pursue excellence at work without sacrificing what matters most at home?

Randy shares powerful insights from decades of coaching leaders across Fortune 100 companies, professional sports teams, and nonprofits—along with lessons from his book Winning Begins at Home.

This conversation goes beyond clichés about work-life balance and gets practical about strategy, systems, presence, and love—and why winning at home actually makes you a better leader at work.

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00:00 – Welcome to 2026 & the Intentional Leader community

02:10 – Introducing Randy Gravitt & the tension leaders feel

03:40 – Strategic at work, sporadic at home

06:00 – Why family has quietly been diminished

07:45 – Being home but not really home

08:55 – Proximity does not equal intimacy

10:00 – The servant leadership tension

12:20 – Living in the center of the tension

13:45 – Begin with the end in mind

15:10 – You will never finish all the work

16:50 – Seasons turn into patterns

18:30 – The NFL Super Bowl story

21:00 – Leaving work at work

22:15 – Training presence like a discipline

23:30 – Rituals that help you be present

25:30 – Phone boundaries that actually work

27:40 – Winning the first hour of the day

29:40 – Why home life fuels work performance

32:10 – Choosing priorities on purpose

34:00 – The hidden cost of neglecting home

36:30 – "What kind of family do you want?"

38:40 – Family by design, not by default

41:00 – Marriage after the kids leave

43:00 – Don't go to bed angry

46:30 – Love first

49:50 – See a need, meet a need

54:00 – Final encouragement to leaders

59:00 – Key takeaways & closing challenge