Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman, co-authors of 'What Are Children For?', delve into the dramatic cultural shifts impacting America’s declining birth rate. They discuss the rise of 'parenthood ambivalence' and how changing attitudes towards dating and family planning reveal a disconnect in modern relationships. With insights on feminism, environmental concerns, and evolving gender roles, they challenge traditional views on parenting, urging a reflection on what family means in today's world. Their analysis opens a dialogue about the emotional complexities of modern parenthood.
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Population Decline
The 21st century might be the century of global population decline, not explosion, as predicted.
Fertility rates are falling globally, causing concern about economic and social consequences.
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The Purpose of Children
Many young people struggle to articulate why they want kids, unlike other life goals.
Considering the purpose of children is crucial for understanding declining birth rates.
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Partner Finding and Dating Scripts
Many childless individuals cite not finding a suitable partner, not a lack of desire for children.
Modern dating scripts, emphasizing extensive vetting and delayed commitment, contribute to this issue.
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Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman's "What Are Children For?" delves into the complexities of modern parenthood, exploring the ambivalence and choices surrounding childbearing. The book challenges the traditional view of motherhood as an expected outcome of adulthood, highlighting the conflicts between personal aspirations and societal expectations. It examines the cultural narratives surrounding parenthood, analyzing how these narratives influence individual decisions. The authors offer a philosophical and cultural critique of the current discourse, providing guidance for navigating the uncertainties of this pivotal life decision. Ultimately, the book advocates for a more thoughtful and nuanced approach to the question of having children, emphasizing the importance of individual agency and collective responsibility.
Today we go deep on the psychology of having children and not having children, and the cultural revolution behind the decline in birthrates in America and the rest of the world. The way we think about dating, marriage, kids, and family is changing radically in a very short period of time. And we are just beginning to reckon with the causes and consequences of that shift. In the new book, 'What Are Children For,' Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman say a new "parenthood ambivalence" is sweeping the world. In today's show, they persuade Derek that this issue is about more than the economic trends he tends to focus on when he discusses this issue.
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