It's The ADHD-Friendly Show | Personal Growth, Well-being and Productivity for Distractible Minds

Can't Focus? Alway Anxious? This might be why...

Aug 22, 2025
Discover why many ADHD adults often feel chronically dysregulated and learn about polyvagal theory's five nervous system states. Explore simple, cost-free strategies like mindful breathing and morning walks to regain balance. Understand how safety—both internal and external—affects emotional well-being. Delve into the importance of connection and co-regulation for maintaining mental health, particularly for those diagnosed later in life. This conversation is packed with actionable insights for managing ADHD symptoms effectively.
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INSIGHT

Regulated State Is The Goal Standard

  • Ventral vagal is the regulated 'goal standard' state: calm, alert, adaptable, and social.
  • Functioning, immunity, digestion, and stress recovery all work best in this state.
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Fight And Flight Present Differently

  • Sympathetic modes split into fight (irritability, aggression) and flight (panic, anxiety) with similar physical symptoms.
  • ADHD adults often live in these hypervigilant sympathetic states and mistake them for normal.
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Shutdown Has Two Flavors

  • Dorsal shutdown feels numb, disconnected, and heavy while dorsal freeze adds stuckness and low energy.
  • You can feel shut down yet still have background stress running in the body.
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