1105: Productivity Tips: Ideas For People With Too Many Things to Do by Tonya Lester on Creating More Time For Yourself
Oct 10, 2023
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Psychotherapist Tonya Lester shares productivity tips for busy people, focusing on the importance of not over-focusing on busyness, making choices, cutting out unnecessary tasks, and creating systems to simplify one's life. She also emphasizes finding one's own way in managing productivity habits, setting realistic expectations, and prioritizing serendipity, laughter, sleep, and pleasure.
Shift your focus to meaningful aspects of life to reduce stress and strengthen relationships.
Identify priorities and eliminate unnecessary tasks to achieve a better work-life balance.
Deep dives
Tip 1: Avoid Over-focusing on Busyness
Rather than constantly dwelling on how busy we are, it is important to shift our focus to the meaningful aspects of our lives. The author shares how she and her husband used to engage in conversations about their hectic lives, which only added to their stress. By reframing their perspective and appreciating the exciting things they were involved in, they were able to have more enriching conversations and strengthen their relationship.
Tip 2: Make Choices and Prioritize
It is crucial to make choices and cut out activities that are not truly important to us. While volunteering and being involved with various commitments can be valuable, it's necessary to identify our priorities and not be burdened by others' expectations. By consciously evaluating what truly matters to us and aligning our choices with our desires, we can eliminate unnecessary tasks, focus on what brings us joy, and achieve a better work-life balance.
Tonya Lester shares productivity tips for busy people
Episode 1105: Productivity Tips: Ideas For People With Too Many Things to Do by Tonya Lester on Creating More Time For Yourself
Tonya Lester, LCSW, is a psychotherapist in Brooklyn, NY. She graduated from New York University with a Master's degree in Social Work. Her post-graduate training includes a fellowship at Psychoanalytic Theory at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Theory and Research (IPTAR) and supervised practice in Psychodynamic Therapy under Drs. C.E. Robins and John Broughton. She completed training in IFS with Dick Schwartz, Nancy Sowell, and Pam Krause. Her training in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) was with John Forsyth, Ph.D. She studied RLT with its creator, Terry Real.