That Relationship Show

Sex With Dr. Lexx

Jul 30, 2021
Dr. Lexx Brown-James, a sexologist and licensed marriage and family therapist, dives into the complexities of sex, identity, and healing from sexual shame. She passionately discusses the importance of intimacy in relationships, offers practical tips for rebuilding connection, and celebrates late-life discoveries of sexual identity. Lexx also addresses the intersection of shame in queer and trans communities and the vital role of trauma-focused healing. Her insights on reclaiming pleasure and integrating sexuality into therapy are both enlightening and empowering.
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INSIGHT

Sexuality Is Broader Than Sex

  • Lexx Brown-James centers sexuality as part of identity, not just acts or anatomy.
  • Sexuality includes body relationship, spirituality, and who you identify as.
ANECDOTE

Clients Regain Pleasure At Any Age

  • Lexx shared graduating clients including a 92- and 88-year-old who regained pleasurable sex.
  • She also celebrated a teen she supported since 14 now going to college.
ADVICE

Rebuild Intimacy With Small Touches

  • Use small, non-sexual touches to rebuild closeness before expecting intercourse.
  • Practice simple acts like long hugs or a kiss on the neck to heal emotional distance.
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