Making Polyamory Work Libby Plus One: Mono-Poly and NRE
Oct 18, 2020
In this engaging discussion, Drew, Libby Sinback's husband and a polyamorous dad, shares insights on navigating the complexities of mono-poly relationships and New Relationship Energy (NRE). They address the emotional challenges of jealousy and insecurity, especially in traditional partnerships. Listeners gain valuable advice on balancing expectations and fostering healthy communication. Drew emphasizes the fleeting nature of NRE and the need for adaptability in sustaining strong connections while managing guilt and emotional needs.
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Understanding New Relationship Energy
- New Relationship Energy (NRE) is a temporary but intense physiological state that can last 6 months to around 18 months.
- It can feel overwhelming but doesn't erase deep, long-term relationship bonds, which are more like slow-burning fires.
Love vs Compatibility
- Falling in love doesn't mean lifelong compatibility or realism in the relationship.
- You can experience love and also realize lack of compatibility and life alignment with someone.
Expectations Change in Relationships
- Long-term relationships inherently involve evolving expectations and compromises.
- Change is the only constant, requiring partners to pivot and renegotiate their needs over time.