Unfollowing Mum Ep67 Jealousy and shame from narcissistic mothers
Oct 23, 2024
In this insightful discussion, an anonymous guest shares her experiences of growing up with a narcissistic mother in the 1980s. She explores the emotional turmoil of estrangement and the complex dynamics of toxic family relationships. The impact of jealousy and shame on personal development and parenting is profoundly examined. Listeners will resonate with her reflections on breaking the cycle of toxic motherhood and the challenges of forging nurturing bonds while confronting past traumas. This candid conversation is both enlightening and healing.
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Emotional Abuse After Father's Stroke
- The mother's anger and self-centeredness became clear after the father's stroke triggered her emotional abuse.
- She resented the caregiving role and blamed the speaker for supporting her father.
Toxic Parent Jealousy Over Attention
- Toxic parents often exhibit jealousy when the focus shifts away from them to others in need.
- This jealousy fuels emotional abuse and controlling behaviors toward family members.
Mother Claims Credit for Grandchild
- The guest's mother claimed credit for the guest child's college acceptance to attract attention.
- She often sought the spotlight and refused to acknowledge others' achievements authentically.