Sex Gets Better With Effort: The Husband’s Intimacy Playbook

Today’s guest is Laurie Handlers — Tantra educator, talk show host, and intimacy coach. She’s the author of Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and leads programs through Butterfly Workshops, Inc. and the International School of Temple Arts.

In this ~40-minute episode, you’ll learn:

• Why long-term sex gets better only with intentional effort (after the honeymoon & kids).

• The starter “effort stack”: schedule date night, learn to dance, have the conversation.

• How to decode complaints into clear requests—without hurting feelings.

• The training mindset: treat intimacy as a skill (courses/coaching > guessing).

• The presence playbook: breathe together, watch her face, phones down.

• The 10/10 framework women name: Presence, Connection, Safety, Communication, Skill.

• A simple boundary script and the repair rule: “First to return to love wins.”

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