The Dr. John Delony Show My In-Laws Are Ruining Christmas (Help)
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Dec 24, 2025 Dive into a festive discussion about handling in-laws and holiday traditions with plenty of laughter. Discover tips on managing holiday guests, keeping politics at bay, and reconnecting with your spouse. John and Kelly debate Christmas movies, share their favorite carols, and tackle the sensitive subject of gift giving. Plus, they share ideas for coping with loss during the holidays and creating new traditions as a couple. From quirky family rituals to playful critiques of holiday films, they cover it all with heart and humor!
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Preempt Controversial Conversations
- Send guests a travel plan email that explicitly lists topics you will not discuss.
- Enforce those boundaries calmly and leave if hosts refuse to respect them.
Negotiate Guest Plans Early
- Discuss holiday length and expectations months in advance and propose shorter stays.
- Plan solo activities or quick getaways to preserve your sanity if guests overstay.
Set A Clear Gift Limit
- Set a low spending limit for family gift exchanges and stick to it.
- If you can afford more, avoid outspending others to prevent making Christmas about you.