

What's Your Scorecard? (Coaching Session)
26 snips Dec 8, 2023
Khe Hy, Founder and CEO of RadReads and host of The Examined Life Podcast, delves deep into his relationship with money and ambition. He discusses the impact of internal scorecards on self-worth and the confusion that arises without them. The conversation explores the dichotomy between being and doing, reflecting on childhood fears surrounding financial independence. Khe emphasizes the importance of self-trust and the challenge of maintaining clarity in one's values, encouraging listeners to reconnect with their intrinsic motivations.
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Scorecard Dependence
- Without external validation, Kay feels lost and rudderless.
- This reveals a dependence on external metrics for self-worth.
Dark Room Analogy
- Kay imagines being in a luxurious, yet isolated, dark room.
- He realizes that even with all needs met, his physical safety feels threatened.
Scorecard as Signal
- Kay recognizes that his scorecards, like money and attention, are ways to signal his existence and worth to others.
- This highlights the underlying need for connection and validation.