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Life Kit

How to talk to a parent about their past

Jul 11, 2024
Author Min Jin Lee, known for Pachinko, discusses unpacking parents' pasts. Tips on connecting, discussing family history with care. Navigating sensitive topics, abuse in Asian American families, and passing down family heirlooms.
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  • Approach conversations about parents' pasts with clear intentions and gentleness.
  • Prioritize self-protection and emotional readiness when discussing family trauma and mental health history.

Deep dives

Arthi's Family Struggles and Unlikely Bond with her Father

Arthi Shahani, a non-engineer from a family of seamstresses and shopkeepers, faced challenges with her father, Namdev, who turned out to be her unlikely confidant after being arrested and facing deportation. Their legal crisis led to a deep friendship, revealing Namdev’s remarkable life story shaped by civil war, migration, and sacrifices for family.

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