Stop Trying To Make People Love You

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Jan 24, 2024

Explore the liberating idea that seeking love from others can distract from discovering your true self. The discussion highlights the dangers of conforming to societal expectations and the importance of embracing authenticity. Personal experiences illustrate the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the power of setting boundaries. Practical tips are shared on building genuine relationships and nurturing confidence. Ultimately, the focus is on being unapologetically you and attracting those who will love you for it.

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INSIGHT

Losing Yourself for Acceptance

Seeking acceptance can make you lose yourself.
Many people change to fit in, forgetting who they truly are.

ANECDOTE

Rob Dial's Transformation

Rob Dial shares how he became an "asshole" to gain respect in his work environment.
He realized this wasn't his true self, a "rock giving, flower picking little boy."

ADVICE

Rediscovering Yourself

Ask yourself "Who are you?" and "Who do you want to be?".
Journaling and self-reflection can help you rediscover your true self.

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In this episode, I chat about why it's not our job to make others love us. Instead, it's all about finding out who we really are, being that person authentically, and then magnetically attracting those who will love us just the way we are. Sounds liberating, right?

We'll explore how our quest for acceptance can sometimes lead us astray, making us lose sight of our true selves. Remember those days when we tried so hard to fit in? Well, it's time to talk about it! From childhood pressures to societal norms, I'll share insights and personal experiences on how these influences can shape us and why it's so important to break free from them.

I'm also super thrilled to share some practical tips on how to rediscover and embrace your true self. Expect discussions on building confidence, nurturing genuine relationships, and staying true to your own values and interests. It's all about being unapologetically YOU!

Remember, it's not about changing for others; it's about being true to yourself and finding your tribe. Let's dive in and discover the power of authenticity together!

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