The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos Have You Got Trust Issues?
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Mar 24, 2025 
Rachel Botsman, a trust expert and author, dives into the declining trust in our institutions and each other. She reveals how this erosion impacts our happiness and the fabric of society. Botsman discusses the rise of peer influences among younger generations and the role of social media in shaping trust perceptions. She emphasizes the importance of navigating distrust and suggests a 'trust pause' to better assess relationships. Ultimately, she advocates for small 'trust leaps' to rebuild connections in a world filled with uncertainty.
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Nanny Drug Dealer
- Rachel Botsman's family hired a nanny who seemed trustworthy.
- The nanny used their car as a getaway car in a robbery.
Trust Decisions Under Pressure
- Avoid making high-stakes trust decisions under pressure, as convenience can override caution.
- Be wary of relying on stereotypes and biases when assessing trustworthiness.
Distrust vs. Low Trust
- Low trust is simply lacking information, while distrust manifests as defensiveness, disengagement, and disenchantment.
- Distrust is not simply the absence of trust but an active turning against.
