Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
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Mar 31, 2025 What do you do when you're interested in someone but not physically attracted? The hosts delve into the importance of attraction beyond the surface, examining the impact of societal norms on beauty and how personal insecurities affect relationships. They share humorous suburban anecdotes while discussing deeper qualities that foster attraction. Additionally, they tackle overcoming past unhealthy habits and the importance of character over looks, encouraging listeners to reflect on their emotional connections for healthier partnerships.
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Consider Cultural Influences on Attraction
- Consider that physical attraction is emphasized in modern culture, potentially misleading you.
- Don't feel pressured to marry someone unattractive; attraction can be a factor.
Historical and Biblical Context of Marriage
- Historically, marriages were often arranged, minimizing the role of physical attraction.
- Biblical accounts like Jacob and Rachel are descriptive of the times, not prescriptive for today.
Evolving Standards of Beauty
- Standards of physical attraction change over time.
- Preferences for tanned versus fair skin, body shape, etc., have varied throughout history and cultures.