

Relationships, Gender Wars, and Online Culture with Katherine Dee (Default Friend)
55 snips Dec 18, 2024
Katherine Dee, an author and former dating advice columnist, shares her insights on modern dating dynamics shaped by technology and social media. She discusses how dating experiences can differ dramatically across locations like San Francisco and New York. The conversation dives into the prevalence of 'situationships' and avoidant behavior among younger generations. Dee also examines the cultural implications of the Me Too movement and evolving views on masculinity and femininity, highlighting the fragmented nature of contemporary relationships.
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Varying Dating Markets
- Dating markets vary significantly by location and social context.
- What works in San Francisco differs from New York, and tech industry dating differs from other sectors.
Class in Dating
- Class, not just wealth but social hierarchy, significantly impacts dating experiences, especially regarding the "gender war".
- This is a key factor, particularly in discussions about gender dynamics in dating.
SF vs. NY Dating
- Dating in San Francisco may be slightly easier for women seeking stability compared to New York, where creative careers and precarity are more common.
- Appearance expectations also differ between cities, influencing dating dynamics.