Coaching Culture 207 How to Apply Positive Discipline Tools to Common Behavior Problems | Dr. Jane Nelsen Author of Positive Discipline Part 2
Aug 29, 2021
Dr. Jane Nelsen, a prominent author specializing in positive discipline strategies, delves into applying these techniques in sports and education. She emphasizes the necessity of connecting before correcting misbehavior, offering insights for handling athlete disruptions. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding mistaken behavior goals and advocates for positive approaches over punitive measures. Nelsen also explores the collaboration between parents and teachers to promote effective communication and emotional regulation strategies for youth.
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Nose Tap Solution
- Coach Clint had a player who kept interrupting practice.
- Using "mistaken goal disclosure", they agreed that the coach tapping his nose would signal attention.
Mistaken Goal Disclosure
- Misbehavior stems from seeking belonging and significance.
- "Mistaken goal disclosure" helps address this by identifying the underlying need.
Normalize Connection
- Normalize connection with athletes, not just when coaching.
- Make connection the norm, not an indicator of upcoming criticism.