Coaching Culture

🎙️ Can't Connect with Today's Athletes? You're Not Alone! | Communication Specialist Betsy Butterick on Coaching Gen Z & Gen Alpha 🤯Are you a coach feeling the fatigue? Do terms like "entitled" and "soft" sneak into your conversations about your team? You are experiencing the generational shift that is pushing coaches out of the profession, and this episode is your urgent, actionable roadmap back to success and joy.   We sit down with Communication Specialist and "The Coaches' Coach," Betsy Butterick, to discuss her transformative new book, Kids These Days. Betsy unpacks why the old ways of coaching are no longer effective and how you can bridge the widening gap with Gen Z and Gen Alpha athletes without sacrificing your standards.   Here’s a sneak peek at what you'll learn in this must-listen episode:🔥 Why Coaching Feels Impossible Right NowIt's "One More Thing" Fatigue: Coaches are drowning in responsibilities outside of the sport, and connecting with modern athletes feels like the final straw.   The Blame Trap: How fixating on "Kids These Days" or "Coaches These Days" as the problem prevents any real solutions.   The Technology Chasm: Why athletes today are fundamentally different from previous generations, and how the internet has shaped their expectations and development in ways you might not realize.   💡 Game-Changing Shifts for Modern CoachesFrom Accommodation to Collaboration: Stop feeling like you have to accommodate every demand. Learn how to master the art of co-creation, which is key to boosting engagement, ownership, and accountability.   It’s Not Impossible, It’s Unpracticed: The skills you think athletes should have are simply unpracticed. Discover your incredible opportunity to use sport to teach them how to "do hard better".   The Power of Asking: The best coaches at every level avoid lectures and use strategic questions to effectively reach and teach the modern athlete. We break down the subtle language shift you need to make today to avoid athlete conflict.   🛠️ Action Items for LeadersHow to Level Set Expectations to reduce conflict and increase the likelihood of success before the season even starts.   Why Self-Reflection is the necessary first step—if you don't know your own triggers and resistance, no strategy will work.   Whether you coach a high school team, an elite college program, lead in the boardroom, or are simply raising Gen Z/Alpha kids, this episode will transform the way you communicate and connect.   Don't let the joy of coaching fade! Tune in now to learn the essential strategies for success in the modern sports landscape.Get the Book! 📖Kids These Days by Betsy Butterick is available for pre-sale now! Find links and learn more here: https://betsybutterick.mykajabi.com/book-kids-these-days-1-c20fe85a-66a5-414d-ab06-a4f847ba8f29Connect with Betsy:Website: https://betsybutterick.com/Instagram & LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/betsy_thecoachescoach/https://www.linkedin.com/in/betsybutterick/

In a world of intense social media messaging and traditional "man box" expectations, how can coaches connect with and lead young male athletes effectively? In part 2 of our conversation with Kip Ioane of Teams of Men to explore a coaching philosophy that goes beyond yelling and wins. Kip shares powerful stories and actionable strategies for using vulnerability as a strength, co-creating a positive team culture, and helping athletes find their authentic selves. This isn't just about coaching a better game—it's about building better men.Kip discusses a new approach to coaching young male athletes that focuses on emotional intelligence and challenging traditional masculinity, often referred to as the "man box." Instead of relying on old-school, aggressive coaching methods, the conversation highlights the importance of fostering self-awareness, creating a safe space for difficult conversations, and empowering athletes to question harmful messages they receive from society, music, and even family members. The episode also explores the power of vulnerability from coaches and the importance of co-creating team culture with the athletes themselves.Learn more about Teams of Men: https://www.teamsofmenmembership.group/Join the TOC Coach Community- Get your 7 Day Free Trial https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Listen to the Culture Builders Podcast: Youtube | SpotifyInterested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

Join us for a powerful conversation with Kip Ioane, founder of Teams of Men, as he shares his journey from basketball coach to advocate for a new vision of masculinity. Triggered by a series of unsettling incidents, Kip realized that traditional coaching methods weren't enough to prepare young men for the real world.In this episode, we dive into the concept of the "man box"—the rigid set of societal expectations that can leave men feeling lonely, angry, and isolated. Kip explains how coaches can use their unique platform to challenge these harmful norms, not by adding more to their plate, but by shifting their focus.Join the TOC Coach Community- Get your 7 Day Free Trial https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Listen to the Culture Builders Podcast: Youtube | SpotifyInterested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

You’ve heard the quote, "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail," but how much time do you spend preparing your team's culture? In this episode, hosts JP Nerbun, Nate Sanderson, and Betsy Butterick break down why an intentional plan for your culture is just as critical—if not more so—than your tactical systems. They reveal the biggest excuses coaches use to avoid this essential work and share actionable strategies to build a strong foundation. Learn how to align your staff, connect with your athletes on a deeper level, and proactively engage with parents to create a culture that can withstand the pressures of a long season.3:06 - Common Obstacles7:26 - Top 3 Foundational Practices11:58 - The Power of Expectations14:55 - Co-Creating Standards21:11 - The Dream Manager25:58 - Engaging Sports ParentsJoin the TOC Coach Community- Get your 7 Day Free Trial https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Listen to the Culture Builders Podcast: Youtube | SpotifyInterested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

In this episode, we sit down with veteran coach Eoin Roche to explore the nuanced world of athletic development. Eoin, known for his work with various teams from youth development to senior inter-county, dives deep into how he leverages one-on-one sessions and film analysis to unlock player potential.Discover why a one-size-fits-all approach doesn't work in coaching, and how adapting your methods to individual athletes, even using technology to connect with quieter players, can lead to significant breakthroughs. Eoin shares his powerful insights on objective post-game analysis, stressing the importance of data and film over personal biases to find the true story of a performance.You'll also hear about his innovative approach to introducing performance analysis to young athletes, proving that early exposure can create "sponges" eager to learn. Perhaps most importantly, Eoin reveals the vital role of building genuine relationships with players. Learn how showing you care and are invested—through your hard work and commitment—builds invaluable credibility and earns player buy-in.Whether you're a seasoned coach, an aspiring analyst, or just passionate about sports, Eoin's practical wisdom on balancing data, human connection, and making the game fun will resonate deeply.Key Discussion Points:Adapting coaching for individual needsLeveraging technology for film review and player engagementThe power of objective data vs. personal biases in analysisIntroducing performance analysis to youth athletesBuilding credibility and relationships with playersMaking coaching and learning enjoyableDon't miss this engaging conversation that goes beyond the playbook to explore what truly drives Join the new TOC Coach community: https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Interested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

In this special episode, we're making a huge announcement that's been in the works for a long time. We're thrilled to officially launch the TOC Coach Community, a new platform and partnership between TOC and SAVI.Join us as we sit down with Tyler and Mark to discuss our personal coaching journeys, the lessons learned from influential mentors, and the powerful "Venn diagram" that brought our philosophies together. We dive deep into why we're moving beyond transactional coaching to a transformational experience that empowers leaders.Discover how the TOC Coach Community combines the best of both worlds:TOC's proven leadership and culture coursesSAVI's engaged community and simple, implementable systemsWe'll share how this platform offers more than just content—it's a supportive home for coaches. You'll get access to seven online courses, hundreds of digital resources, and live training, but most importantly, a team of peers and mentors who help you navigate challenges and define success beyond the scoreboard.Whether you're a first-time coach or a seasoned veteran, this partnership is designed to help you thrive on the journey.Join the Community: Sign up for the new TOC Coach community https://www.skool.com/toccoach/about

In this insightful discussion, Eoin Roche, a seasoned coach-analyst in hurling with a master's in sports performance analysis, shares his innovative approaches to athlete development. He emphasizes the importance of merging coaching with analytics to enhance clarity. Eoin advocates for concise film sessions, utilizing player-led presentations and strategic questions to promote engagement and reflection. He also highlights the significance of establishing core principles of play, ensuring consistent messaging, and providing impactful feedback for optimal team performance.

This discussion dives into the crucial role of trust in sports teams. It highlights Coach John Wooden's legacy and his commitment to integrity. The hosts explore the four pillars of trust and how modern pressures complicate building it. Strategies for navigating tough conversations and encouraging transparency are shared. The impact of generational changes and social media on trust dynamics is examined too. Coaches are equipped with practical tools to foster genuine relationships and improve team culture.

In this engaging discussion, David Durand, founder of Real Development and author of 'Bet On It', shares his expertise on coaching modern athletes. He emphasizes the critical link between an athlete's nervous system and their resilience. David challenges traditional views by distinguishing between an athlete's inability and unwillingness to perform, focusing on emotional dysregulation. He advocates for nurturing Gen Z autonomy and offers practical coaching strategies, including effective breathing techniques and supportive communication to foster growth in a safe environment.

Are you a coach struggling to connect with Gen Z athletes? Do you wish your team had better emotional regulation on and off the court? In this insightful episode, we sit down with David Durand, founder of RealDevelopment.org and author of "Bet On It," to explore a revolutionary approach to coaching that goes beyond traditional skill development.David, a former basketball coach with a background in clinical psychology, shares his journey to understanding the profound link between an athlete's mental state and their performance. Discover why he believes athletes are often "biologically unable" rather than just "unwilling," and how focusing on their nervous system can unlock their true potential.Learn about David's powerful BET Method (Breath, Eyes, Touch) – three practical pathways to help athletes regulate their emotions, improve focus, and build deeper connections. We discuss how coaches can use intentional questions to foster athlete awareness, create environments that support co-regulation, and implement simple team rituals that dramatically reduce stress and enhance performance.Whether you're coaching a youth team or an elite squad, this episode offers actionable insights into building more resilient, self-aware, and high-performing athletes. Don't miss this game-changing conversation that will transform how you lead and connect with your team!Key Takeaways You'll Learn:Why understanding an athlete's psychological state is as crucial as their physical skills.How to differentiate between an athlete's "unwillingness" and their "biological inability."Practical strategies using Breath, Eyes, and Touch to regulate individual and team nervous systems.The power of co-regulation and how a coach's own emotional state impacts the entire team.Simple team rituals that foster belonging and reduce performance anxiety.Connect with David Durand:Website: https://realdevelopment.org/Book: "Bet On It"