Coaching Culture

You’ve heard the quote, "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail," but how much time do you spend preparing your team's culture? In this episode, hosts JP Nerbun, Nate Sanderson, and Betsy Butterick break down why an intentional plan for your culture is just as critical—if not more so—than your tactical systems. They reveal the biggest excuses coaches use to avoid this essential work and share actionable strategies to build a strong foundation. Learn how to align your staff, connect with your athletes on a deeper level, and proactively engage with parents to create a culture that can withstand the pressures of a long season.3:06 - Common Obstacles7:26 - Top 3 Foundational Practices11:58 - The Power of Expectations14:55 - Co-Creating Standards21:11 - The Dream Manager25:58 - Engaging Sports ParentsJoin the TOC Coach Community- Get your 7 Day Free Trial https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Listen to the Culture Builders Podcast: Youtube | SpotifyInterested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

In this episode, we sit down with veteran coach Eoin Roche to explore the nuanced world of athletic development. Eoin, known for his work with various teams from youth development to senior inter-county, dives deep into how he leverages one-on-one sessions and film analysis to unlock player potential.Discover why a one-size-fits-all approach doesn't work in coaching, and how adapting your methods to individual athletes, even using technology to connect with quieter players, can lead to significant breakthroughs. Eoin shares his powerful insights on objective post-game analysis, stressing the importance of data and film over personal biases to find the true story of a performance.You'll also hear about his innovative approach to introducing performance analysis to young athletes, proving that early exposure can create "sponges" eager to learn. Perhaps most importantly, Eoin reveals the vital role of building genuine relationships with players. Learn how showing you care and are invested—through your hard work and commitment—builds invaluable credibility and earns player buy-in.Whether you're a seasoned coach, an aspiring analyst, or just passionate about sports, Eoin's practical wisdom on balancing data, human connection, and making the game fun will resonate deeply.Key Discussion Points:Adapting coaching for individual needsLeveraging technology for film review and player engagementThe power of objective data vs. personal biases in analysisIntroducing performance analysis to youth athletesBuilding credibility and relationships with playersMaking coaching and learning enjoyableDon't miss this engaging conversation that goes beyond the playbook to explore what truly drives Join the new TOC Coach community: https://www.skool.com/toccoach/aboutSubscribe to the Team Culture Toolbox Newsletter so you don’t miss the notes to this and every episode! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter Learn More and Apply for the next TOC Coaching Retreat: https://www.tocculture.com/retreat Interested in booking TOC for a team meeting/consultation? Click here→ https://www.tocculture.com/contactTOC Coaching & Culture Certification : https://www.tocculture.com/offers/3FEMNae2/checkoutLearn More about TOC and how we can help enhance your coaching experience https://www.tocculture.com/Learn More about Besty Butterick and her work with coaches! https://betsybutterick.com/Follow Us On Social MediaSubstack: https://substack.com/@jpnerbuntocInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/tocculture/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@tocculture Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@tocculture

In this special episode, we're making a huge announcement that's been in the works for a long time. We're thrilled to officially launch the TOC Coach Community, a new platform and partnership between TOC and SAVI.Join us as we sit down with Tyler and Mark to discuss our personal coaching journeys, the lessons learned from influential mentors, and the powerful "Venn diagram" that brought our philosophies together. We dive deep into why we're moving beyond transactional coaching to a transformational experience that empowers leaders.Discover how the TOC Coach Community combines the best of both worlds:TOC's proven leadership and culture coursesSAVI's engaged community and simple, implementable systemsWe'll share how this platform offers more than just content—it's a supportive home for coaches. You'll get access to seven online courses, hundreds of digital resources, and live training, but most importantly, a team of peers and mentors who help you navigate challenges and define success beyond the scoreboard.Whether you're a first-time coach or a seasoned veteran, this partnership is designed to help you thrive on the journey.Join the Community: Sign up for the new TOC Coach community https://www.skool.com/toccoach/about

In this insightful discussion, Eoin Roche, a seasoned coach-analyst in hurling with a master's in sports performance analysis, shares his innovative approaches to athlete development. He emphasizes the importance of merging coaching with analytics to enhance clarity. Eoin advocates for concise film sessions, utilizing player-led presentations and strategic questions to promote engagement and reflection. He also highlights the significance of establishing core principles of play, ensuring consistent messaging, and providing impactful feedback for optimal team performance.

This discussion dives into the crucial role of trust in sports teams. It highlights Coach John Wooden's legacy and his commitment to integrity. The hosts explore the four pillars of trust and how modern pressures complicate building it. Strategies for navigating tough conversations and encouraging transparency are shared. The impact of generational changes and social media on trust dynamics is examined too. Coaches are equipped with practical tools to foster genuine relationships and improve team culture.

In this engaging discussion, David Durand, founder of Real Development and author of 'Bet On It', shares his expertise on coaching modern athletes. He emphasizes the critical link between an athlete's nervous system and their resilience. David challenges traditional views by distinguishing between an athlete's inability and unwillingness to perform, focusing on emotional dysregulation. He advocates for nurturing Gen Z autonomy and offers practical coaching strategies, including effective breathing techniques and supportive communication to foster growth in a safe environment.

Are you a coach struggling to connect with Gen Z athletes? Do you wish your team had better emotional regulation on and off the court? In this insightful episode, we sit down with David Durand, founder of RealDevelopment.org and author of "Bet On It," to explore a revolutionary approach to coaching that goes beyond traditional skill development.David, a former basketball coach with a background in clinical psychology, shares his journey to understanding the profound link between an athlete's mental state and their performance. Discover why he believes athletes are often "biologically unable" rather than just "unwilling," and how focusing on their nervous system can unlock their true potential.Learn about David's powerful BET Method (Breath, Eyes, Touch) – three practical pathways to help athletes regulate their emotions, improve focus, and build deeper connections. We discuss how coaches can use intentional questions to foster athlete awareness, create environments that support co-regulation, and implement simple team rituals that dramatically reduce stress and enhance performance.Whether you're coaching a youth team or an elite squad, this episode offers actionable insights into building more resilient, self-aware, and high-performing athletes. Don't miss this game-changing conversation that will transform how you lead and connect with your team!Key Takeaways You'll Learn:Why understanding an athlete's psychological state is as crucial as their physical skills.How to differentiate between an athlete's "unwillingness" and their "biological inability."Practical strategies using Breath, Eyes, and Touch to regulate individual and team nervous systems.The power of co-regulation and how a coach's own emotional state impacts the entire team.Simple team rituals that foster belonging and reduce performance anxiety.Connect with David Durand:Website: https://realdevelopment.org/Book: "Bet On It"

John Newman-Gonchar, the head women's volleyball coach at the University of New Mexico, joins J.P. Nerbun for a candid coaching call. They explore his struggles to balance a demanding career with family life while rekindling his passion for coaching. John reflects on the emotional challenges and societal pressures he faces, aiming to integrate joy and lightheartedness with his serious coaching style. By identifying his 'best self,' he commits to actionable steps that enhance both his team's experience and his own fulfillment.

Eamon Devlin, founder of Minute 9, specializes in transforming team communication under pressure. In this discussion, he dives into effective halftime strategies that can elevate athlete performance. Eamon explains practical techniques like using anonymous surveys and the 'stop, start, continue' framework. He also emphasizes the importance of structured dialogue during critical moments and managing player frustrations. Additionally, Devlin shares insights on assistant coach dynamics and emotional regulation for coaches, offering actionable tips to foster a supportive atmosphere.

Eamon Devlin, Founder of Minute Nine, focuses on optimizing communication during high-stakes moments in sports. He reveals how traditional halftime speeches often miss the mark and shares his journey from law to sports consulting. Eamon emphasizes the importance of brevity and emotional well-being for players, suggesting that clarity can enhance performance. He also advocates for a supportive communication culture, highlighting the power of genuine connection over dramatic outbursts. Coaches and athletes alike will find his insights transformative.