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Loving BDSM The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance
Aug 16, 2024
Dive into the unique challenges and joys of being a dominant in BDSM relationships. Discover the emotional weight of decision-making and the essential balance of power, consent, and responsibility. The speakers shed light on self-promotion struggles and the impact of mental health on kink dynamics, all while sharing humorous anecdotes. They highlight the importance of open communication and adaptability in navigating complex power exchanges, ensuring both partners feel valued and understood.
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The Decider's Burden
- John, as the decider, feels pressure from decision outcomes affecting their lives and family.
- Kayla supports his decisions and helps find solutions when things go wrong, alleviating some pressure.
Pressures of Play
- John feels pressure to find meaningful playtime amidst life's changes.
- He values Kayla's kink scene knowledge and experience but still bears the responsibility for creating those experiences.
Mental Health and Kink
- John's depression eliminates his desire and thus pressure to scene.
- Kayla's anxiety, conversely, maintains pressure despite a lack of desire, highlighting differing experiences.