Tori Dunlap discusses societal double standards in women pursuing wealth, challenges the stigma around women and money, emphasizes empowering women financially, and encourages women to take control of their financial future
Society celebrates men for pursuing wealth, while women face criticism and shame for the same.
Women are conditioned to prioritize others over their own financial well-being, leading to guilt and shame around money.
Deep dives
The Double Standard in Pursuing Wealth
Society's double standard in perceptions of men and women pursuing money is examined in the podcast. Men are often applauded and worshipped for pursuing wealth, while women face criticism and judgment for similar pursuits. Examples from TV shows and real-life experiences highlight how men are allowed to be transparent about money and achievements, whereas women are often shamed for wanting financial independence and success.
Weaponized Altruism and Societal Expectations
The concept of weaponized altruism is discussed, where societal norms ingrained in childhood enforce gender roles that hinder women from unabashedly pursuing money. Boys are encouraged to be resilient and value their self-worth, while girls are taught to prioritize giving to others over their own needs. As women grow up, these societal expectations result in guilt and shame surrounding financial success and independence.
Empowering Women in Pursuing Wealth
The episode encourages women to challenge societal narratives and celebrate their financial accomplishments boldly. By developing better habits around discussing money, sharing accomplishments without guilt, and supporting each other's pursuit of wealth, women can dismantle the gender biases that stigmatize women for seeking financial independence. Imperfect action, self-encouragement, and open conversations about money are presented as key steps towards empowering women to reclaim their worth and financial agency.
“Men are allowed to ask for what they're worth. They're allowed to show up as the fullest version of themselves. They're allowed to take up space. They're allowed to purchase things without the shaming judgmental comments. Men are allowed to pursue wealth in a way that women just aren't.” Tori Dunlap
Have you ever felt guilty about wanting more money? Have you ever felt shame around wanting to charge more or get paid more? This episode of Financial Feminist tackles the deep-seated societal narratives that discourage women from pursuing financial security and independence and exposes the double standard that exists around money and wealth. Men are celebrated for their financial success, while women are expected to be selfless and prioritize the needs of others, often at the expense of their own financial well-being.
This episode is a must-listen for any woman who wants to challenge the status quo and build a life of financial freedom. Join Tori Dunlap as she dismantles the myths around women and money, and equips you with the tools and confidence to take control of your financial future.