Financial Feminist

154. Why Do I Feel Guilty for Wanting Money?

May 2, 2024

Tori Dunlap discusses societal double standards in women pursuing wealth, challenges the stigma around women and money, emphasizes empowering women financially, and encourages women to take control of their financial future

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Tori Dunlap

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Quick takeaways

Society celebrates men for pursuing wealth, while women face criticism and shame for the same.

Women are conditioned to prioritize others over their own financial well-being, leading to guilt and shame around money.

Deep dives

The Double Standard in Pursuing Wealth

Society's double standard in perceptions of men and women pursuing money is examined in the podcast. Men are often applauded and worshipped for pursuing wealth, while women face criticism and judgment for similar pursuits. Examples from TV shows and real-life experiences highlight how men are allowed to be transparent about money and achievements, whereas women are often shamed for wanting financial independence and success.

Introduction

2min

Exploring Men's Openness about Financial Success

2min

Breaking the Taboo: Women and Wealth

7min

Gendered Perspectives on Spending and Wealth Pursuit

3min

Challenging Gender Norms in Pursuit of Wealth and Success

13min

Empowering Women Financially

5min

“Men are allowed to ask for what they're worth. They're allowed to show up as the fullest version of themselves. They're allowed to take up space. They're allowed to purchase things without the shaming judgmental comments. Men are allowed to pursue wealth in a way that women just aren't.” Tori Dunlap

Have you ever felt guilty about wanting more money? Have you ever felt shame around wanting to charge more or get paid more? This episode of Financial Feminist tackles the deep-seated societal narratives that discourage women from pursuing financial security and independence and exposes the double standard that exists around money and wealth. Men are celebrated for their financial success, while women are expected to be selfless and prioritize the needs of others, often at the expense of their own financial well-being.

This episode is a must-listen for any woman who wants to challenge the status quo and build a life of financial freedom. Join Tori Dunlap as she dismantles the myths around women and money, and equips you with the tools and confidence to take control of your financial future.

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