ADHD Chatter The Tragic Impact Of Undiagnosed ADHD & How To Reverse It | Dr. Jacob Ambrose
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Oct 28, 2025 Dr. Jacob Ambrose, a clinical psychologist specializing in ADHD, delves into the emotional turmoil of undiagnosed ADHD. He discusses how childhood criticism breeds low self-esteem and shame, particularly in women. The conversation highlights the stress of masking true selves and its toll on health. Jacob reveals the nuances of rejection-sensitive dysphoria and how it destabilizes relationships, emphasizing the impact of romantic attachment styles. He also advocates for the power of a proper diagnosis in reclaiming one’s potential and embracing self-acceptance.
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Shame From Childhood Criticism
- People with ADHD often internalize childhood criticism and develop deep shame about their core self.
- Dr Jacob Ambrose says this shame comes from being judged for wiring, not behavior, and feels like 'something is wrong with me.'
Overwhelm Amplifies ADHD
- Overwhelm magnifies ADHD traits, making impulsivity and working-memory problems worse.
- Ambrose suggests our stereotype of ADHD may actually reflect the overwhelmed person, not inherent ADHD alone.
Women Face Extra Masking Pressure
- Women with ADHD face extra stress because society expects them to be small while their neurochemistry pushes them to 'take up space.'
- Ambrose notes many women mask heavily, even resembling OCD-like refinement to fit social boxes.
