Episode 362: Sex Questions We’ve Never Been Asked Before (Listener Questions)
Jan 14, 2025
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Ashley Weller, a Human Sexuality and Health Psychology Professor at Chapman University and host of What’s Your Position, joins to tackle intriguing listener questions. They discuss eco-friendly disposal methods for unwanted sex toys, revealing the complexities involved. Ashley also provides insightful advice for a sex worker on how to approach conversations about her profession with her children. Their banter blends humor and expert insight, making these sensitive topics relatable and engaging.
Correctly disposing of old sex toys involves understanding recycling options and exploring creative ways to repurpose them sustainably.
Openly discussing sex work with children using age-appropriate language can mitigate stigma and foster understanding about the industry.
Deep dives
Disposing of Old Sex Toys Responsibly
The disposal of old sex toys can be approached in environmentally responsible ways, contrary to the common habit of simply throwing them away. Recycling options exist, but they depend on the materials of the toys, as not all components are recyclable. Some companies offer recycling programs where clean toys can be sent in for a small reward or voucher, enabling consumers to reuse their items sustainably. Additionally, there are even creative suggestions for repurposing old toys, such as turning them into art projects or using them as conversation starters in decor.
Navigating Conversations about Sex Work with Children
Discussing the realities of sex work with children is becoming increasingly relevant, given the rise of online platforms like OnlyFans. Parents working in the adult entertainment industry face the challenge of finding the right moments to disclose their occupation to their kids while maintaining their privacy and safeguarding their children from potential stigma. It’s recommended that parents address the topic honestly, using age-appropriate language to explain the nature of their work. Open dialogue about sex and sexuality early in their children's lives can foster understanding and sensitivity, preparing them to navigate the broader societal challenges they may encounter.
The Stigma of Sex Work and Its Impact on Family Dynamics
The stigma surrounding sex work can profoundly affect family relationships and dynamics, particularly concerning how parents choose to communicate their occupations to their children. Many sex workers worry about the societal implications for their children, including bullying or discrimination, while others see their work as a source of economic independence and flexibility. Conversations should take into account the potential risks of disclosing such information, as well as the different societal perceptions that exist about forms of sex work. Educating children about respect for individuals in the sex industry can help mitigate some of the stigma they may face.
The Importance of Communication and Support Networks
Effective communication and the establishment of supportive networks are crucial for sex workers who are also parents navigating the complexities of their dual roles. Engaging with other parents in similar situations can provide valuable insights and community support, which is especially important given the stigma they may face. Parents are encouraged to seek out forums or discussions with other sex workers to share experiences and resources, helping to foster a sense of belonging. Emphasizing open communication within the family can pave the way for trust and understanding, allowing children to feel more secure in discussing sensitive topics.
We are answering more of your sex questions in this show! We had a couple of fascinating questions that came through our listener voicemail that really stood out to me because I’ve never been asked about them before:
Our first question is about what to do with sex toys you don’t want or need anymore. Can you recycle them? The answer is surprisingly complicated!
The second question comes from a sex worker who wants to be open and honest with her kids about her work, so she’s looking for advice on how to have that conversation.
To help me in answering these questions, Ashley Weller is back on the show. She is a Human Sexuality and Health Psychology Professor at Chapman University in Southern California. She also has a podcast called What’s Your Position that tackles issues surrounding sexuality, relationships, life, and love from a comedic yet educational point of view.
Have a sex question of your own? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.
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