everybody has a secret nobody knows I’m in a 10-year relationship
Nov 13, 2025
The hosts dive into a range of complex relationship dilemmas. They discuss the ethics of wedding guest lists, especially when a friend's partner is problematic. A poignant tale unfolds about a secret 10-year relationship discovered during COVID, leaving the listener torn about staying or leaving. Another dilemma involves confronting an ex after a diary reveals a potential affair. The hosts expertly navigate these emotionally charged scenarios, offering both humor and wisdom as they unravel the intricacies of love and trust.
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Mystery Half-Eaten Takeaway
- Charlotte ordered a chicken focaccia with parmesan chips and found a half-eaten sandwich in the bag.
- She messaged colleagues and called the place — a surprising first-time delivery mystery for her.
Protect Your Wedding Bubble
- If you don't want someone's partner at your wedding, don't invite them and use the guest-limit truth as a reason.
- Prioritize your comfort on your wedding day and accept that hard conversations may follow.
Secrecy Signals Relationship Trouble
- Keeping a long-term relationship secret isolates you and prevents sharing highs and lows with friends.
- Isolation and secrecy are signs the relationship dynamic may be controlling or unsustainable.