Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?

Nov 25, 2024

Explore the dynamics of honorifics in the BDSM community. The discussion highlights the importance of consent and communication when establishing preferences. They analyze whether it's appropriate for submissives to call a Dominant 'Sir' and share personal experiences. Clear boundaries and open dialogue are emphasized to ensure a respectful and enjoyable power exchange dynamic.

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ADVICE

Setting Boundaries with Honorifics

Set boundaries with people you're chatting with if being called "sir" makes you uncomfortable.
Communicate your preferences clearly and respectfully.

ADVICE

Clarifying Honorific Expectations

If a submissive uses an honorific unprompted, clarify that it's not required.
Explain that some people have been misinformed about such expectations.

ANECDOTE

Kayla's Discomfort with Unnegotiated Daddy

Kayla Lortz shares her personal discomfort with unnegotiated honorifics like "daddy".
She only requests that the term isn't used with others.

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