18Forty Podcast Bruce Feiler: The Stories That Bind Us [Divergence 2/5]
Mar 29, 2022
Bruce Feiler, an acclaimed author known for his works on family and resilience, discusses the power of family narratives. He emphasizes how storytelling can foster emotional well-being in children and enhance familial bonds, especially during events like Passover. Feiler also explores the chaotic realities of hosting a Seder, the importance of sharing genuine family experiences, and how different generations cope with life's transitions. His insights reveal how understanding personal and collective histories can strengthen family ties and resilience.
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Seder Prep vs. Reality
- David Byshevkin shares personal Seder stories where kids' unexpected reactions disrupted plans.
- These illustrate how Seders often differ from ideal expectations with real family dynamics and emotions.
Ask Stories, Not Small Talk
- Use meaningful open questions like "Tell me something you learned recently" to invite real conversation.
- Avoid small talk like "What do you do?" to foster deeper relationships and storytelling.
Storytelling Heals Family Pain
- Bruce revived his father emotionally by sending storytelling questions, inspiring a 65,000-word memoir.
- This method helped heal his family during his father's severe depression and suicide attempts.
