49. Not for Asymmetrical Sex + Building a Solid Friend Group
Nov 16, 2023
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The hosts discuss coping with loneliness and finding connection, the therapeutic benefits of focusing on absorbing activities, tips for building a solid friend group, childhood dreams of fame, shoe shopping and goatee preferences, and random topics including skincare and sex requisites. They also share their experiences with masturbating during the pandemic.
Engage in activities that make you feel less lonely, such as listening to podcasts or organizing.
Recognize personal growth and vulnerability as essential for fostering deeper connections with others.
When hosting a party, curate a comfortable atmosphere with a well-matched playlist, plentiful food and drinks, and involve guests in the preparation process.
Deep dives
Benefits of Spotify for Podcasters
Spotify for Podcasters is a free platform that allows users to easily record, edit, and distribute podcasts from their phone or computer. It also offers the option to create video podcasts. With Spotify for Podcasters, podcasters can monetize their content through various means, including ads and subscriptions.
Coping with Loneliness and Seeking Connection
The podcast hosts discuss strategies for coping with loneliness and seeking connection when friends or company are not readily available. They suggest engaging in activities that make one feel less lonely, such as listening to podcasts or comfort shows, and engaging in tasks like organizing or tidying up. They also touch on the importance of recognizing the opportunities in the present moment, even if it doesn't align with one's initial expectations.
Dealing with Panic Attacks and Fear of Abandonment
The hosts share personal experiences with panic attacks and the fear of abandonment. They relate panic attacks to the fear of losing something or someone important in their lives and discuss the impact it has on their relationships. They highlight the importance of recognizing personal growth and allowing oneself to become vulnerable in order to foster deeper connections with others.
Creating a Comfortable Party Atmosphere
When hosting a party, it is important to ensure that the atmosphere is comfortable and enjoyable for all guests. This can be achieved by considering factors such as music, food, and the overall environment. Curating a playlist that matches the mood of the party and appeals to a wide range of tastes can enhance the experience. The availability of plentiful drinks and food is also crucial, as it creates a welcoming atmosphere and encourages guests to feel more relaxed. Additionally, involving guests in the preparation process by asking them to contribute in some way can make them feel more invested in the party's success.
Idiosyncrasies and Preferences in Intimate Situations
When it comes to intimate situations, individuals may have idiosyncrasies or preferences that contribute to their overall satisfaction. These idiosyncrasies can vary greatly from person to person, but they are important to recognize and respect. For example, one person may need to adjust the pillows and bedding to create a symmetrical arrangement in order to fully enjoy themselves. Another may have specific scents or sensory triggers that enhance their arousal. It is essential to communicate and establish these preferences with a partner to ensure a mutually fulfilling experience.
Jess and Caroline have a lot of scientifically proven laws about friendship over here, but what if your friends aren’t available on a night you need connection? The hosts talk a few hacks for making the most of alone time before Caroline begs Jess for tips on party planning and creating a satisfactory wardrobe—and Jess delivers.
Also, if you’ve ever practiced your autograph or posed for talent scouts at the mall, you’re not alone. Learn how to be a child star, how to quell panic attacks, and how repetitive activities soothe the soul. Plus, we know you’ve been waiting for the return of ~segments~, and we’ve got the kookiest sexual one queued up and ready for you in this episode.
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This episode was produced by none other than our prince, Abi Newhouse. DM her for your audio editing needs!
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DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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