120: Esther Perel Talks Infidelity and Modern Relationships

Nov 8, 2017

In this conversation, Esther Perel, a celebrated New York Times bestselling author and TED speaker, dives into the complexities of infidelity, revealing surprising truths about why even happy couples cheat. She emphasizes the need for open dialogue about non-monogamy and how modern relationship rules are being rewritten. Perel also elaborates on avoiding identity loss within relationships and the vital role of emotional connections. Packed with insights, this discussion provides practical advice for fostering healthier, more resilient partnerships.

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Intro

00:00 • 3min

Exploring Infidelity and Its Insights on Relationships

03:22 • 2min

Navigating the Complex Landscape of Modern Relationships

05:09 • 5min

Navigating Infidelity and Modern Relationships

10:23 • 24min

Daily Check-Ins and Resources for Relationship Vitality

34:45 • 2min

Timeless Love: Nurturing Relationships Through Continuous Care

36:47 • 2min

Enhancing Relationships: Resources and Tools for Couples

38:30 • 2min

Infidelity is something that can affect both unhappy, and seemingly happy relationships. That's right, research has shown a significant number of partners are cheating while in a happy relationship. Esther Perel breaks down how to deal with infidelity and a range of other relationship topics that we know you'll enjoy. Esther is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships, and we couldn't have been happier to have her on the show to share her extensive knowledge.

In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

How the rulebooks for marriages and relationships are being reinvented.
Why people cheat in a happy relationship.
How to avoid the trap of becoming a narrow version of yourself while in a relationship.
What to do when there has been cheating in your relationship.
Talking about non-monogamy with your partner, and why it's important even if you don't want to explore an open relationship.
How to cultivate the healthiest relationship possible.
And much more!

Belgian psychotherapist, Esther Perel, is the New York Times bestselling author of The State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered nearly 20 million views, and she is also the host of the popular Audible original podcast Where Should We Begin?

Full Show Notes at http://idopodcast.com/120

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