Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

2625: Do You Want To Date People Who Don’t Want To Date You By Evan Marc Katz on Dating Advice

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Jun 15, 2025
Explore the liberating truth about dating and mutual desire. Fixating on unavailable partners can derail your chances for real love. Instead, focus on those who genuinely want to be with you. A candid coaching conversation illustrates the importance of broadening your dating perspective. Learn to let go of self-imposed limitations and prioritize connections that uplift you. In the end, it's about attracting the right person who appreciates you for who you are.
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ANECDOTE

Client's Age Restriction Story

  • A 57-year-old woman refused to date men her own age or older due to past painful experiences.
  • Coach Evan Marc Katz explained why dating only younger men might limit her chances severely.
INSIGHT

Older Women Face Harsh Online Reality

  • Men aged 50-56 mostly seek women significantly younger than 57 on dating sites.
  • Older women often compete with younger, thinner women online, creating a tough dating environment.
ADVICE

Date People Who Want You

  • Focus on dating people who want to date you instead of trying to convince those who don't.
  • Prioritizing mutual interest leads to healthier and more attainable relationships.
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