This vs. That Understanding Trauma vs. Simplistic Responses to Trauma - Darby Strickland
Dec 10, 2025
Darby Strickland, a counselor and faculty member at CCEF, shares her expertise on trauma and its profound effects. She emphasizes the harm of simplistic responses like suggesting time heals all wounds or questioning faith. Darby clarifies that trauma disrupts self and relationships, making the label less important than the individual experience of pain. She advocates for a ministry of presence, recommending consistent support and practical acts of care. Through scripture and community, Darby provides insights on loving trauma survivors well.
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Trauma Is Defined By Its Impact
- Trauma describes the impact when someone is overwhelmed by events, not just the events themselves.
- It disrupts sense of self, safety, and the ability to connect with others and God.
Avoid Minimizing Or Judging Reactions
- Avoid simplistic responses like "time will heal" or "you lack faith."
- Validate suffering instead of judging or demanding coherence in someone's story.
Name What Helps, Not What Classifies
- Focus on how the person's life is impacted rather than debating whether it meets a 'trauma' threshold.
- Use the language the sufferer brings and introduce 'trauma' gently when it helps them understand their global experience.
