The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle You Hide That You Love Them, and Pretend You’re Their Friend
May 4, 2025
The podcast dives into the complexities of hiding true feelings for someone emotionally unavailable, especially for those with past traumas. Discussions highlight the damaging impact of unreciprocated emotional entanglements and the struggle between friendship and romance. A heartfelt listener's letter emphasizes the fears of risking a valued connection. The importance of honesty and establishing clear emotional boundaries takes center stage, guiding listeners toward self-awareness and healthier relationships.
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Trauma Exploited in Friendzone
- Childhood trauma makes people vulnerable to "just friends" roles that mask romantic feelings.
- Unhealthy individuals exploit this vulnerability by stringing along with subtle hope to keep control.
Stop Pretending You're Unaffected
- Stop pretending harmful actions don't affect you; acknowledge your hurt honestly.
- Expressing pain clearly moves relationships forward and allows healing or closure.
Avoid Emotional Affairs with Marrieds
- End friendships with married people unhappy in their marriage to avoid emotional affairs.
- Decline continued contact politely and clearly to protect your own emotional health.